QUIET TIME: This time for me to study the word becomes my sword against the doubts that creep in throughout the day. When I forget to plan breakfast so that we're eating the crumbs of the cheerios, or when I lose it at the school table because I'm repeating for the twelfth time how to change a percentage into a fraction, or pretty much any time at all, this is the thing that gets me through. This year I'm falling back on one of those trusty one year reading plans. I'm using a Bible app on my phone that gives a handy list of reading for each day that you can check off.
TEA: I got a new mug from a friend for Christmas and I am discovering that a well-timed cup of peppermint tea can make all the difference in my day. Plus I just discovered that you can wed two of my favorite things in a tea: chocolate and mint! Who knew?
CHOCOLATE: I told you it was a favorite thing. I don't drink coffee, so I think a nice dark bar of chocolate is my stand-in. I've been allowing myself a small bar each day at rest time. It's probably not doing wonders for my waistline, but it is amazing for my psyche. My favorite right now is a very inexpensive dark chocolate found at Aldi: Moser Roth (also available on Amazon, but for no where near as good a price.)
Plus there are all the chocolate treats I love making. I try not to make too many of them, but I'm planning to make these yummy coconut flour chocolate cookies for friends coming to dinner on Saturday. I'm going to top them with this chocolate coconut whipped cream and some shavings of my Moser Roth to make a fun dessert out of an already yummy cookie.
MUFFINS: All my categories are starting to blend together, but I just have to share this chocolate muffin with you. The ingredients are (no joke) a banana, an egg, some peanut butter, some cocoa, a tiny bit of baking soda, and some honey. Oh, and you make them in the blender and it only takes about 30 seconds to mix them up. (Yay!) I've made them twice and the second time I put in half the amount of cocoa suggested and they were much better. That's a bit crazy since usually I double the cocoa, but for these half the amount was much better. No flour, no sugar, lots of protein, and most importantly, CHOCOLATE. And, if you know me at all, you probably know that muffins are a major coping mechanism for me. If I'm disturbed or grieved or feeling helpless, I usually end up in the kitchen throwing ingredients together for some kind of muffin. I didn't realize this about myself until a year and a half ago when I heard about two friends who had miscarriages in the same week. I cried, I prayed, and I made muffins. I didn't know what to say to them, how to grieve with them, but I made a big mess in my kitchen and left muffins on their front doorsteps.
BOOKS: Reading fiction is, for me, a major part of parenting five children and being a wife to the hubby. I escape, I learn, I adventure, a relax into fiction--the more fantastic the better. I recently read The Circle Series by Ted Dekker. I have to admit that I checked it out of the library because it was one FAT book and I wanted a lot of reading material for the holidays. It was great. A good story, fun characters, mind-stretching fantasy, AND some great Biblical themes. My favorite was the idea of the Great Romance. I know it's all throughout scripture that Christ is a husband to us, but that's always been a bit of a hard concept for me. This book made it all make sense. Christ thinks of us as His bride. You know the picture of the love-drenched groom who can't get enough of his beloved and thinks she's wonderful and would do anything for her? That is Christ for the church!! It is really an eye-opener to think of my fellow Christians as His beloved. His blood has covered our sins and he sees us as beautiful and desirable!
DANCE: I really love dancing. Whether it's marching and dancing in a silly way to Put on the Armor (we're studying the armor of God for Bible this semester) or doing ballet clinics at our neighborhood or taking advantage of our clean, slippery wood floor to get in a few pirouettes, I love to dance! I miss the workout dance class that I used to attend. For fun I've been watching Bunheads, a kind of corny drama about some ballerinas and their teachers. I don't know if I really recommend the show, thought it has its moments, but I LOVE the dancing part!
WALKING: I used to spend so much time outside. It really is therapeutic. The best way these days for me to get out and to exercise (and to get in much needed conversation time) is to WALK. The hubby and I are able now to get out and walk around the block on our own without necessarily getting a babysitter every time thanks to having an oldest daughter who is so capable. I love that. I also try to walk with a friend once a week. There is something about crisp, cold air and a blue sky that can wash away the cobwebs, for sure.
How do you enjoy the winter months?